On the evening of October 28th, 2011, I was in Aylmer, Quebec where I attended the West Quebecers 2011 Community Awards. Here my daughter Tamara (b.1964) received their annual Education Community Award for her outstanding volunteer work in the Wakefield area of Quebec.
As a father with Doukhobor pacifist roots growing up in Western Canada, tears came to my eyes when Tamara in her response acknowledged the role of her parents in instilling the spirit of inquiry, activism and responsibility for ones actions. She mentioned the peace marches that she and her brother Lev used to go with us as parents and other members of the concerned public in Saskatchewan, holding signs for peace and universal brotherhood.
Acceptance by Tamara Tarasoff for Education Community Award |
What we do as parents does matter. As an example to our children, we affect our gene pool and the future generations. That is Lesson 101 of the celebrated biologist Charles Darwin. That is how the quality of the world is achieved.
As well, individual actions do matter. At the end of her emails, Tamara adds a priceless bit of advice, taken from the wisdom of popular US anthropologist Margaret Mead (1901-1978) whom I as an anthropologist met years ago in Moscow and Montreal:
'Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.'
Tamara has taken that wisdom to heart. I have followed the EcoLaPeche Blog which she has written over the past two years to inform fellow citizens about the poorly planned regional septic sludge plant that her regional government wishes to build along the Gatineau River near Wakefield. Her brave efforts combined with the collective support of concerned community members is a classic case of basic democracy at work. The community has virtually raised the roof and brought to light the actions of seven mayors in the Gatineau area while pushing for a better solution, one that all citizens can live with. The combined efforts of 'thoughtful committed citizens' is having an effect.
As parents we are of course proud of Tamara and her non-paid volunteer work in the Wakefield community of Quebec. As father I would like to add one other attribute that deserves mention.
In our materialistic digital age, Tamara has not forgotten her Russian Doukhobor roots. When the Canadian Museum of Civilization was holding its Spirit Wrestlers Exhibition in the mid-1990s, she did a contract for the Museum in creating modules on the best of Doukhobor traditions and culture. Also she volunteered in demonstrating the art of cooking as well as spinning wool. Moreover, as time permits, she has been working on a Traditional Recipe book largely based on her first-hand lessons and memorable anecdotes from her Saskatchewan grandmothers who were both excellent cooks: Baba Luba Konkin in Kamsack and Baba Anastasia Tarasoff in Saskatoon. We all look forward to a 'best seller'.
At the Awards ceremony we were reminded that 'it takes a whole village to raise a child'. Absolutely!
This award is given to the person who has made the most substantial contribution to the development and enhancement of education.
Tamara (right) with son Nicholas and daughter Elena. |
Tamara Tarasoff moved to the Wakefield area with husband John in 1996. Soon after children Nicholas and Elena were born, she was inspired to become part of this community's outstanding volunteer tradition. As a young mom, she first brought her energy and ideas to Wakefield School. She volunteered in the classroom and worked with other parents to establish the Butterfly Garden and organize events and fundraisers. One year, she organized a parent petition asking the Municipality of LaPĂȘche for a grant to complete the school playground; after she made a presentation at a municipal council meeting and received the desired funds. In recent years she worked with community members to create a plastic bag education program for the school. As a result of this program, students reduced their use of plastic bags and encouraged community members to do likewise. In 2011, she co-led Life Before Plastics, a follow-up to this program; over several months, Grade 4 and 5 students explored the history of plastics, participated in oral history and photography workshops, took photographs, and conducted oral history interviews with elders in the community who lived before plastic was a common material.
Hello Koozma,
ReplyDeleteYou have every reason to be proud of your daughter, Tamara - congratulations. As her father, you also deserve congratulations. Although, not as poignant as Margaret Mead's quote, may I offer that 'an apple doesn't fall far from the tree' and her parents' ideals and values nurtured a child who is now a beautiful woman.
With my very best wishes/Annie
Greetings Koozma,
ReplyDeleteThank you for the news regards Tamara. It appears that Tamara has large reserves of energy so we can expect to be hearing more from her.
You mention Darwin. I see where Tamara's intelligence has done an excellent job of uplifting the intelligence of Koozma and Nadya. Is that one of Darwin's principles or do I have it backwards?
In the meantime please pass on the heartiest congratulations possible to her from Texas.
Cheers. Charlie Chernoff, Texas USA
Koozma
ReplyDeleteIt was a pleasure to meet you too. Unlike you, I wasn't fortunate enough to grow up with such a rich Doukhobor heritage and it was only when my wife and I found Wakefield that we, too, found a place to put down roots and grow. If you go to my web site (which is not quite as fancy as yours)
http://http-server.carleton.ca/~gcohen/vphome.htm
you might get some idea of why we too have found an avocation
As an aging community organizer, now, my most important goal , is to encourage and support the next generation of leaders, such as your daughter.... Philip Cohen, Village Poet, Wakefield, Quebec
Congratulations Koozma, you must be very proud! What a blessing children can be.
ReplyDeletelily Nowak, Edmonton, Alberta